Russian psychologist Irina Krashkina advises parents on handling children's crying behavior.
The expert says the biggest mistake is interpreting crying as suffering or parental incompetence.
Tantrums in children up to 4-5 years are a healthy part of mental development. Parents should support emotions, not suppress them.
At the peak of emotions, children ignore explanations. Simply staying nearby and providing a sense of security is key.
Downplaying a child's feelings increases stress. If the parent is exhausted, avoiding conflict and taking time for self-care is recommended.
Finally, let go of the illusion of being a perfect parent.
